“Why am I made like this? », «If I were different…», «I wish I didn’t have that thing…». Hello mom boo, how did you do it to me, I’m not pretty… It’s okay, I think you know what I’m talking about… Those damn COMPLEXES! Yes, society and its dictates of the perfect body do not forgive men. Some complexes can even become an obsession and become a daily handicap in coexistence with oneself and with others, especially with women…
If you are worried, you have come to the right place! In this article, we decided to cheer you up a bit because you are too hard on yourself. We collect the testimonies of four women and one man who literally exploit some of your worst complexes.
Get ready, you will be surprised…
The » tits», Géraldine finds it cute…
Meet the boobs is the contraction between man and boobs (chest in English). Therefore, we are talking here about the male chest. Called gynecomastia, male breasts are often explained by excess skin or fat in the mammary glands, often due to hormonal imbalance, medication intake, or illness. The boobs constitute one of the most tenacious masculine complexes.
When asked what little «flaw» made her break in a man, this is what Géraldine, 32, a young teacher, answered without hesitation: “I like men who are a bit chubby, who have curves. I never really liked muscular guys like the bald actor with the huge arms there ( she was talking about the rock ). My partner has beautiful love dolls and even a little more chest than me… he has had a complex about it for a long time. Me too. A few years ago, she would never go out without a super padded bra while he was considering plastic surgery… It really was an irony of fate. But over time, we learned to put things in perspective, she brought us closer to her. Today we even managed to laugh about it! «.
Amina likes imperfect smiles…
Misaligned, too far apart, overlapping or yellowish teeth, so many small dental complexes that can make you lose your smile… It must be said that at the moment, natural dentitions are no longer very popular. Fashion is for teeth that are whiter than white, like Jack Abbott from Young and the Restless. Everyone has their likes…
In any case, it is not that of Amina, a 28-year-old stewardess who, between two flights, told us about her weakness for imperfect men’s teeth: «What I like are imperfect smiles, I find that they give a hyper-manly side, Tom Hardy or Tahar Rahim style. I hate teeth that are too perfect, bleached straight. It feels fake, unnatural. It makes me think of horse teeth, I can’t! I prefer the authentic! «.
Very hairy men, that’s what makes Françoise crack…
In our society, male body hair is allowed. However, hairiness can sometimes be a source of complexes for some men.
Françoise, 47 and executive assistant tells us about her husband: “I still remember being very surprised when I discovered ALL this hair, really from the torso to the feet. Especially since it’s so brown. Mind you, she might have gotten a clue from seeing her mono-eyebrow (laughs)… At that time, she was a bit surprising, but very quickly that was what gave her the charm. I find him manly… Today, we have been married almost 14 years and I still have that warm, secure feeling when I lean on his hairy chest…”
Tom has a weakness for receding hairline…
Another difficult complex to live with for many men, baldness, with which sometimes much more than hair is lost… The impact on self-confidence is sometimes considerable, to the point that some decide to resort to hair implants.
And well imagine that there are people for whom it is a real trick of seduction! This is the case of Tom, 38 years old and web developer who tells us: “I really don’t know how to explain it, and when I talk to my friends they laugh at me, but bald men have an obvious attraction power for me. They give off a certain maturity, a reassuring side, half wise half sexy, that I don’t know how to explain but that I have a hard time resisting in a good heart of artichoke worth his salt…”.
Nia has radically changed her opinion about short men…
Society does not look favorably on short men, as size is often considered one of the main criteria of virility… As a result, it is often very difficult to assume one’s small size on a day-to-day basis. day in front of their own gaze and that of others… especially women.
However, if you decide to accept being short on your legs, your small size can become an asset of irresistible charm… This is the case of Nia’s boyfriend, 25 years old, an Afro hairdresser: “ Basically, I had a lot of prejudices. Before I met him, never in my life could I have imagined getting together with a man shorter than me, really… Especially since I’m quite tall! (Girl measures 1m73) . But I really don’t know how to explain it, little by little, just the way she talks, her smile, her humor, her charm, it made me forget how big she is. actually yazid (her boyfriend) didn’t seem to see her size as a big deal, so it ended up being a normal thing for me too. And in the end today, I think that’s what seduces me most about him. He knows what he is and he doesn’t care about people’s eyes. »
Thanks again to Géraldine, Amina, Françoise, Tom and Nia for taking the time to share these beautiful testimonials with us.
Now go and tell us in the comments if you recognized yourself in any of these testimonials, it will make us very happy!
